Why would I compare the NFL to real estate? I have just had a settlement where I represented a first time home buyer and a REALTOR friend and old business partner of mine with a competing company represented the home seller. It was just like an NFL game without the physical contact of course, but there was trash talking, going up and down the field with negotiations, the ball constantly changing hands.
I have been in real estate for 24 years and settled hundreds of transactions and as I left this one, it hit me that it was perfect. Not that there were not issues like home inspection repairs and under appraisal, it was perfect in the way that every one handled themselves perfectly during the transaction and afterward.
From the moment the offer was submitted, as an insider or outsider, would not have known that the real estateagents knew each other, much less were friends. There was no small talk, it was all about the fiduciary responsibilities, I being advocate for the first time home buyer and she the home seller.
There were normal negotiations like the initial offer price and terms going back and forth a few times and the homeinspection repairs, similar counter offering. Then there was the not so normal under appraisal and the difficulties associated with working through it. It all worked out, not because of the REALTORS, but the home buyer and home seller were fair and reasonable, each making acceptable compromises.
There is one major difference with the NFL and a real estate transaction. In the NFL one team must win and one mustloose, in a real estate transaction all parties must win. This is best described in a quote that I live by, author Napolean Hill from the book “Think and Grow Rich”.
“I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure unless built upon truth and justice. Therefore I will engage inno transaction that does not benefit all whom it affects.”
A real estate settlement should be a pleasant experience. At the end of every real estate transaction there should behandshakes, laughter and hugs, if not, everyone loses.




